I know I am the biggest complainer, so I will say it here: I, too, am grateful for the LIHL. Even though I can only comment on the forum during the week in my break times and cannot play I dearly enjoy the games that I play in the weekends. My 'complaints' are not meant as nagging, but to make this league even better. Every new organization has start-up problems. I think you are improving quickly and that the 'drama' is needed to learn, I am sure next time the issue will come up both you and I will deal with it differently (and better) and that is a major profit for all of us. If you thought that you could start up a new league with new rules and have no problems at all, I think you were a bit naive (and I am not saying this is a bad thing).
Finally, yes, people tend to post on a forum when something is going wrong and are less likely to post when something went right. If you want to, I can post all the things that are going right, but I would spam the forum then, because way more things are going right than wrong (and you can take that as a compliment
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